Speed Dating Result

Well Thelma said she had "a fun night" speed dating last week... "better than expected".

I even think that she got a match with Tony from Newark.

A good result, and a fun evening.


Thelma in the studio at BBC Radio Nottingham

Speed Dating Tips on Radio Nottingham

Thelma, who is going speed dating on Thursday evening, is to get tips and advice on the radio. Peter Spalton, the Dating Doctor, will coach her live on-air on Thursday morning.

Tune in to BBC Radio Nottingham at 95.5 or 103.8 FM on Thursday 18 August at around 11am to hear his advice and her response. Or listen on the internet via http://www.bbc.co.uk/england/radionottingham/

Signs of Attraction

When we fancy someone our body sends out signals that tell the other person we’re interested in them. You read them subconsciously and get that warm feeling...

Read the full article on The Signs of Sexual Attraction.

Flirting & Dating Workshop

A great evening - 32 singletons attended the Dating Doctor's Flirting and Dating workshop for Friends First in Birmingham. Two had travelled from Newcastle on Tyne, one from Taunton and another from Norwich.

Comments like...

"...great workshop, well put together and beautifully executed."

"...an excellent evening, didn't want it to finish."

Dating Tips in Wolverhampton

Last week I did a half hour radio interview on One City FM, a community radio in Wolverhampton. Two bubbly presenters (Nix & Mazz) and lots of interesting questions on flirting and dating.

One of the most interesting questions from Nix was "Why do most guys find it hard to chat up a gorgeous girl?" The answer is to do with confidence and the fear of rejection. You need the attitude that a No is just one nearer a Yes!

Londoner Grabs 90-odd Potential Dates

Singleton Jeremy, who had a stall selling himself in north London last weekend, collected lots of phone numbers and one date. Check it out on the BBC News website - http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/4628293.stm

See the original article and my comments at http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/4118232.stm


And if you want to practice your chattup skills, join my flirting safari. Go to http://www.spalton.co.uk/event.htm

Desperate to Find a Date

This weekend Jeremy Butler is setting up a stall in north London (England) to hand out fliers advertising the "vacant position of his girlfriend".

Read Jeremy's story and my comments as "the Dating Doctor" on the BBC News website.

But if you want to practice meeting flirting for real, check out my flirting safari.

Tips for Chatting to Men

We like people that are like ourselves. It’s known as rapport, a mutual feeling of understanding and trust. And the way you communicate is the key to building rapport with someone of the other sex.

The fact is that men and women communicate in different ways. So, for a woman to connect well with a man, she should:

• speak slower. Men speak in a slow and deliberate way. So try and match his speed, pace and pitch.
• talk facts not feelings. Present facts as the basis of a discussion or argument, not your feelings, emotions or feminine intuition.
• make direct statements and try not to be apologetic. Say things like “we need to...” rather than “I was hoping that we can...”
• talk about the things he’s interested in, not just what you and your girl friends are in to. Men tend to talk about five things - sport, work, politics, cars (and roads), and gadgets. And themselves!
• mirror his posture without appearing to mimic him.
• be clear about what you want and go for it.

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Flirting Safari - 16 July

Do you want to practice your chat-up skills?

A unique experience to develop and practice your chat-up skills. You will be with a small group who, under the guidance of the Dating Doctor, will practice how to approach and talk to complete strangers in Birmingham (England) city centre shops and bars.

Find out more & book a place.