What to Say Before Hello

When you have a chance encounter with someone, most people don't know how to start a conversation. In fact you just need to look at the other person and the situtaion you are both in, and then use one of six ways to start a conversation.

American way, just say hi…
• "hi, how are you today?"

Comment about the situation you are both in…
• "I think the train's going to be late again."

Ask their advice…
• "have you seen a book on...?"

Mention what they’re wearing…
• "I love your shoes/necklace/T shirt, where did you get it?"

Observe what they’re doing…
• "gosh that food looks good, what have you got?"

Match what they’re feeling…
• "phew, it’s been a long day already."

The best approach is one that makes the other person smile or laugh. So try and come out with something sparky, witty or unusual. But don't spend too much time thinking about what to say as you'll lose your confidence and the moment will have passed you by.

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