A Dozen Top #Dating Tweets

• Date disaster...he points out his ex in same restaurant and she's stunning. The bitch.
• RT @FlirtingExpert: Flirting is the spice of life. If you can flirt, you will never be bored. Never be alone. Lighten up and Flirt On!
• Chatting...talk about what interests them, not what interests you.
• Flirting...use personal space to tease them and build desire.
• Date disaster...her profile said blonde, slim and sexy. She was short, cuddly and brunette, OMG.
• RT @dralexbenzer: The Ten Commandments of Modern Dating 4) Thou shalt not get sloppy drunk during a date.
• It is better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all - Alfred Lord Tennyson
• RT @dralexbenzer: The Ten Commandments of Modern Dating 2) Thou shalt not yammer on your phone during a date.
• Flirting...use your smile that lights up your eyes to disarm them.
• First Date...short and sweet is best. A drink in your lunchbreak or after work, you don't want to be stuck with a bore.
• Second Date...needs to be memorable so you get beneath their skin. Be interested in them and interesting yourself.
• Third Date...this is make or break. If you want to see each other again, then you're dating. So make sure it's right.

A Dozen Ways Women #Flirt With Their Eyes

Women have 52 flirting signals, whereas men have only ten. Of the 52, they have twelve which use their eyes to connect and attract men. The list below is not in any particular order.

The Flirting Triangle is when she looks at your eyes, down to your mouth and back to your eyes. She will usually do this when you are talking.

The Lingering Look sends the signal that she can’t take her eyes off you. She uses this when you are both in a small group of people and you’re doing the talking. When you finish speaking she will continue to look at you for a few seconds longer before she looks at the person who’s taken over the conversation.

The Look Away and Back is when she makes eye contact with you and then looks away for a few seconds before she looks back to make eye contact again and smile.

The Sexy Look Across the Room is a form of the look away and back, but it’s across a crowded room. She will make eye contact with you and smile. You will watch as she looks slowly around the room before she comes back to you and makes eye contact again with another big smile. She can do this from over thirty feet away and the message is that you are the most interesting man in the room.

The Sideways Glance. She will use this when she’s sitting to the side of you, but nor next to you. She will glance at you quickly and then back so you catch the movement out of the corner of your eye. If you don’t she will do it again with a bigger movement. As you turn to look at her, she will look back so your eyes meet and she will smile or give you a Peek-a-Boo or Diana look. She can use the Sideways Glance up to fifteen feet away.

The Glance Back is sometimes called the over the shoulder glance and it’s when she looks back at you with her head tilted down slightly. This is the famous old movie signal where they look back as they ride off into the sunset and is a classic way to pull the heart strings. She might combine the Glance Back with a wink or she could lower her head and give you the Diana look as well.

The Diana Look is when she tilts her head down and looks at you from under her eyelids, she might combine it with a blink to flash her long eyelashes at you. She often uses the Diana Look when she’s taking a sip of her drink.

The Eyebrow Flash is probably self-explanatory. It’s the term I use to describe how she raises both her eyebrows at you for less than a second. She might raise only one, in that case it’s quite a cheeky signal and has sexual connotations in Japan.

Peek-a-Boo is when she looks as you demurely behind something. It could be a menu or a magazine. In the 19th century it would have been a fan. It’s a playful peek-a-boo game that women often use to play with men.

Wink. Need I say any more except that sometimes she winks quite quickly so you may not notice it.

The Mouth Gaze. This is a very sexual signal where she stares at your mouth for about ten seconds when you’re talking. It will probably melt you.

The Come Hither Stare is when you both make direct eye contact across the room and she looks you up and down. She will finish at your eyes with a smile, she might even combine it with an eyebrow flash or a wink. You’d be a fool to ignore this one.

For more click on my tips on flirting.

Five Things about the First Date

Keep It Short - you don't want to be stuck with someone who's a bore. So meet for drink after work or a coffee during your lunch break.

Dress To Please - wear clothes that are appropriate for where you're going. But make sure they can see that you made an effort.

Smile When You Meet - show that you're pleased to see them. Greet them with a beaming smile that lights up your eyes.

Show You're Interested in Them - talk about the things that interest them and animate your head in response to what they're saying. They will happily talk about where they live, holidays, work, interests and hobbies, and their taste in music, films, etc.

Say Goodbye in Style - if you want to see them again agree a date and time before you part. Guys always try and kiss her on the cheek or lips, otherwise she'll think you don't fancy her.